Making friends and building connections on your Chevening scholarship

“When I left Uganda in September to start my scholarship in Edinburgh, I couldn’t stop wondering how I would navigate this new chapter. Would I find people with the same interests as me?  

Five months in, I’ve built a community that feels like family. 

If you’re embarking on your Chevening journey and need help making friends, here’s my five top tips! 

#1: Step out of your comfort zone

Starting over in a new place is never easy. 

I was nervous about meeting new people and adapting to a different environment, but those fears also pushed me to grow.

In my first week, initiating conversations with my classmates felt awkward at first, but I realised that everyone else was just as eager to connect!

Those simple exchanges turned into deep conversations, trips together around Edinburgh, and even late-night study sessions.

I found that by being brave and stepping out of my comfort zone I was able create those human connections. 

#2: Say yes to new experiences 

Some of the best friendships start with a simple ‘yes’!  

Whether it’s joining a society, attending a cultural event, or exploring the UK, each adventure strengthens your bond with others. Travelling to Stirling Castle with Cheveners turned a casual trip into an extraordinary memory. By the end, we weren’t just scholars; we were family!

There’s also the diversity of people I’ve met and the new experiences this brings. My flatmates come from India, Bangladesh, Korea, and Azerbaijan. During a potluck, I shared Ugandan dishes while learning about the traditions, cuisines, and stories of others. Diversity isn’t just about our differences; it’s about finding common ground and celebrating our shared humanity. 

#3: Tap into the Chevening network  

The Chevening community is a unique gift, a global network of scholars, each bringing their own culture, story, and perspective. I recently met up with a group of fellow scholars for a casual drink at Potterrow at Edinburgh University.

What started as a simple outing quickly turned into an evening of laughter, storytelling, and fun.

We talked about our academic journeys, life back home, and our favourite spots in the UK.

By the end of the night, I felt deeply connected to people who, just hours earlier, were strangers. 

#4: Be patient 

Building friendships takes time!

At university there are competing priorities and sometimes meeting new people can take a back seat. 

I focused on small, consistent efforts, sending a message to check in, inviting someone for coffee, or simply being a good listener.

Over time, these little gestures added up and I soon found myself surrounded by friends. 

#5: Don’t be afraid to take the lead

Stepping into a leadership role helps you connect with, and support, others.

As MSc program representative, I regularly engage with classmates, check in and organise events. Leadership naturally fosters trust, respect and camaraderie with others. 

Throughout your Chevening scholarship, remember that it’s never too late to build friendships and find your community!

Whether it’s through your classes, the Chevening network, or even your flatmates. Take advantage of all avenues to build friendships.   

Friendship isn’t about whom you’ve known the longest; it’s about who walked into your life and said, ‘I’m here for you.”

Follow Sandrah’s journey as a Chevening Social Media Ambassador!